This is another real-life story that might happen to anybody. You maybe not aware with this kind of person as they are so nice in front of you...BUT...at your back, they will stabbing you until you can't even breath. Did you get what i mean?
Some of you might think it is 'dunia'. What you give, you will get back. But did you realize, actually you have to face and handle them either you like it or not. It is because backstabbers won't let you even realize that you are actually dealing with them...After doing some reading and searching on this problem, i found that the typical behaviours of backstabbers are:
"Taking credit for others’ work and finding reasons to place blame whenever anything goes wrong."
So...is there any backstabbers around you? If NO...alhamdulillah but if YES...it means you have a big problem. Don't afraid to face them...Backstabber may tell you that someone doesn't like you and if it is happen, go straight to the someone...Do ask if it is true...The backstabber probably has already told someone about you BUT that is why communication play an important role. Do communicate with the someone. Don't ever let it going to improve by its own.
If you need further reading on this, you may refer to this.
Thank you very much Martha Petrie Sue. You already feed me with such fantastic knowledge.
Advise for myself: Please be aware with this people. This people may be exist in your life BUT you did not realize it. You may realize it after you have gone through with the situation. But when the time has come, it may be too late for you to change.
Do not talking about others with someone you are not sure about their background and with someone that you have heard about their bad-mouth previously. IT IS IMPORTANT! It is better to do prevention than cure right?
But If you are so aware about this BUT still it is happened to you, do read and remember this post.
Advise for all my friends: Do not take things for granted. If you are really love your friends, do not ever think to stab them. Do love them as they are.
With Love;
Cik Bada
Thank you very much Martha Petrie Sue. You already feed me with such fantastic knowledge.
Advise for myself: Please be aware with this people. This people may be exist in your life BUT you did not realize it. You may realize it after you have gone through with the situation. But when the time has come, it may be too late for you to change.
Do not talking about others with someone you are not sure about their background and with someone that you have heard about their bad-mouth previously. IT IS IMPORTANT! It is better to do prevention than cure right?
But If you are so aware about this BUT still it is happened to you, do read and remember this post.
Advise for all my friends: Do not take things for granted. If you are really love your friends, do not ever think to stab them. Do love them as they are.
With Love;
Cik Bada
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